There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24 (NIV)
God has taught me a lot about friendship in this past year. About a year and a half ago I realized how much I neglected connecting with friends and developing new friendships. I vowed that I was going to begin living life differently. What was the reason? I have seen too many pastors who are surrounded by people but have few that really know them and who can speaking into their lives.
Previously, I had never considered myself a person who needed a lot of friends, but have come to realize how much I have missed out on with that belief. I also realized that some of my friends may have needed to me more present than I allowed myself to be at times.
So this has been a period of time where I have been more intentional than ever- I am in a couple small groups, I get together for coffee with friends and connect with people on Facebook. In that I have dared more than ever to go beyond the surface stuff and the brag sessions (typical guy stuff) to sharing my heart and hopes. I realize today that I am blessed with great friends and for that I am thankful.
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Pastor Ben,
Thank you for daring to expose yourself in a deeper way. Each time I read your bolg, I either laugh at the stories, or come to know you in a “regular guy” way. I know that sounds wierd, but given your calling and the immense respect I have for you, I have always kept a business distance so I didn’t clutter up your life and ministry work. I miss you and your family but realize that God has a higher purpose and that you are faithfully walking His plan. I do pray for your ministry and all the awesome blessings that are happening at Timberlake.
I look forward to seeing everyone the next time you are in town.
Kelli Mahaffey
EastLake Church
(619) 813-5433
kelli@eastlakechurch.com
Good stuff Pastor! This actually speaks more to me and makes me feel comfortable with you as our church’s leader. A great speaker is always nice and fun (which you are!) but the attempt for sincerity and depth of friendships are the real measures (to me) of a person. Shows true compassion (and allows you to accept it from others which can only help you move forward in your personal and ministerial life). Best wishes!!
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